Monday, November 2, 2009
Christmas cards
Monday, September 7, 2009
Welcome to REAL school
This week he started "real" school. He was fine the first day. Tilden and I took him to school and the parking lot was jam packed with cars and people. He wasn't nervous at all because he had already been here and made new friends and knew his teacher.
He was smiling when he got to class and found that he had a NEW cubby with his name on front with his favorite color, blue.
He signed in on the sign up board and went right to his seat without even giving Tilden and I a hug or a wave. He was busy being "big".
The final day of school for his first week was a whole different story. I picked him up at the end of the day and he was in tears. Then I hear from his teacher that he had been crying off and on for the past 2 hours. He was "to tired for school and to sad because he missed his mom", according to Jacob. He didn't even go to art that afternoon because his mom likes art and it made him miss her more. LOL What a manipulative little man he can be! The teacher let him stay in his class room with her and he read books silently to himself while she did some work.
We've had a nice 3 day weekend and he goes back tomorrow. He's not fussy or saying that he doesn't want to go to school, but man oh man...do I feel sorry for his teacher this year! He is really good at getting his own way by manipulation. He's so little and adorable and he can well up tears in a nano second, drenching those long eyelashes and making them look even longer. I am going to have to buy her something really nice for Christmas. Have fun Mrs. Shaw!
Saturday, August 15, 2009
New Videos
I thought it would be calming to sit here for a minute and listen to one of my favorite songs, " Whatever you're doing/ Something heavenly" by Sanctus real. ahhhhhhhhh Just in case you are curious, here is their video for that song on YouTube : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=06AgY5Xoavw
Odd to most, but it's a calming song on a crazy day like today. :)
I just uploaded a video of Jake's birthday party and his very first soccer game.
He scored 4 goals in 6 minutes and also took a few other shots. He's pretty good...what can I say? Refresh the page if the new video's aren't showing up on youtube.
Friday, August 7, 2009
Pictures
I added it as a new gadget...picked "user name" and then put in my flicker name...BUT I am only getting random pictures on here. Any clues?
Thursday, August 6, 2009
Views on building
Yesterday, Pam, Micah, Eric, Jake, Haliegh and myself went to Alex's new apartment by YSU. You have to walk up 19 narrow steps to get to her apartment, which Micah and Eric felt was a competition. LOL Pam and I worked on a ginormous armoire that Alex got at Ikea last week.
So here is the "picture" ...for your mind. We put a fan in the window in the living room as it was the only window that doesn't have a brick wall directly outside and can provide a nice breeze. Jake and Haliegh played on cardboard boxes in the living room the entire time...so they were cool and comfy. Now, lets shove 3 or 4 adults into the bedroom to work on this jigsaw puzzle known as an armoire with no air flow. Sweat, sweat sweat...drip drip drip.
Pam and I would consider ourselves relatively intelligent people, but we were stumped for at least 30 minutes on STEP 1!!! We were supposed to stick 3 of the main giant pieces of wood together. There were at least 10 pieces with all varying degrees of holes and patterns of holes. We tried one direction...took it apart...tried another ...took it apart. Alex came in and said, "put that one there and this one here" . We did what she said and it appeared to work, so she left the room with her college brain giving her a high five. HOWEVER, when we moved on to step 2 we noticed that the piece with 45 holes in the pattern of the southern night sky was not lining up with the picture in the directions. We stood over these 3 pieces of wood with those directions and turned them upside down...sideways...backwards...sigh. Would it be so difficult to actually print a tiny letter on each piece of wood to identify them. You know, "place board A into board C"?
I stepped into the living room to get some air and discovered Jake and Haliegh throwing popcorn into the fan so that it would blow all over the living room and create a "snow storm". I had to put a stop to it, of course...as she doesn't own a vacuum yet. OOOPSIE. Haleigh said, "this is so cool. I wish I lived here". LOL KIDS!!
Then I went into the dining room to check on the progress of Micah and Eric as they were building a tiny bookshelf. In their 13 year old boy wisdom they rushed and split some of the wood with the nails that you drive into the back piece. They didn't feel the least bit concerned over that problem and decided to run around the house as fast as they could and throw things at each other . I decided to stop them and give them something to do. I made them move things from one room to another.
Back to the Ikea project...it was finally moving along as we had discovered the proper orientation of the first 3 pieces. Cut ahead two hours later and we have ourselves a finished project. I smashed my toe and got 2 cuts on my hands throughout the project, but it's all worth it. Alex got herself a lovely closet/dresser and her 2 little brothers and 2 cousins felt like they helped her in some way. I'm sad to see her move out again, but I'm proud that she is confident enough to take on the world and find her own apartment.
Now the mom side of me has to stop worrying about her living there. LOL
Monday, July 27, 2009
So what now?
Have I suddenly become useless to society because my child is in school? Have I given up my rights to raise him because he is in school? Silly people!! Silly society!!
Guess what? I choose to stay involved in HIS life just like I have in all of his siblings lives. I don't plan on abandoning his child hood for the sake of my own life. I don't need to go to work or start thinking of myself and what I want to do because I now have free time.
I have learned from raising 3 other kids that I have no free time. I loved being there for Alex to chat about the weird boys at school or being the mom who was willing to french braid 5 cheerleaders hair before a game. I was always available to my boys when they needed me to drop everything and drive half the team to a soccer game. They were never late for practice or missed a game because their mom was "busy" and they couldn't find a ride. I have attended nearly every single gymnastics meet, band concert, baseball game, soccer game, track meet, school play, Open house, basketball game, prep bowl, challenge 24, science fair and spelling bee that has lighted across my path. I have been there...at home...when someones heart was broken by their 'true love" or their staggering disappointment because they were cut from the team. I have whisked them away to a "just you and me" lunch or dinner to commiserate or celebrate the event in their lives. I've stolen them away from school in the middle of the day for a surprise trip to see a movie or go to the zoo because they had straight A's.
I AM THEIR MOM...I am their mom 24/7. I am still Alex's mom, even though she is 21 years old. I am still Jake's mom, even though he is now in Kindergarten. Last night around 11pm Alex, Caleb, Micah and I were playing Boggle on my bed and laughing hysterically over our collective ignorance in spelling words. Yeah, that's right...11pm on a Sunday night MY KIDS wanted me to play Boggle with them. Wonder why that is? Oh yeah, it's because I am their mom and not their care giver who raised them for 5 years and then let the school system handle the rest. :)
I have great kids. I have REALLY great kids. People comment to me on a weekly basis that my kids are so accomplished and wonderful. Guess what? It's because I committed to being their mom and let go of the worldly view that I need "my own life". I don't need it...my job is to turn out 4 new adults who will be cherished by their new families some day.
If you see me soon...and you realize Jake is in school now. Don't you dare ask me what I am going to do with all my free time!! There is no free time when you have 4 kids.
Monday, July 20, 2009
First day of school
After about 2 minutes had gone by he tossed his back pack at me and said, "Hold this while I play tag with my new friends." LOL He then spent the next 10 minutes running wildly around the playground. I let him do it too...because I figured he needed to release all that pent up energy. I'm sure his teacher would appreciate that thoughtful gesture on my part. :)
We were there pretty early and as he was playing the buses started dropping the kids off and the playground got pretty full. There are 5 kindergarten classrooms at our school. When the classes started to line up he came over to me and said, "who are all those other kids?". I told him that they were in other Kindergarten's and he just looked confused. I snapped a shot of him walking in his line into the classroom. You can get a feel for how the school is set up from this picture. His line is the furthest...you can see Alex standing at the end of the group and Jake is just about to enter the building. It's so nice that they all have their own door directly from the playground.
I walked into the class with him and said, "I'll see you after school" and he said, "OK, bye" with a HUGE smile on his face. It was so easy to leave him there today knowing that he was thrilled to be at school. I can't wait to pick him up and hear all his stories.
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
YAY me!
icle on the display wa
s a blue car and I just felt that was so boring. When I registered my Garmin today I noticed a little link for the "garage" and when I clicked on it there were all these FREE downloadable vehicles. It took me a full 45 minutes to figure out how to get them onto my Garmin , but I finally did it and here are some of my choices, just to give myself some variety on my trips. (Plus, it will keep Jake entertained when the vehicle is "cool")

Yes, that is a Christmas bulb and it blinks too. There is even a turkey for Thanksgiving and a ton of Christmas and Halloween choices. Fun fun!
Friday, June 26, 2009
ODP
This is Micah his first year of playing soccer...at age 5.Friday, June 12, 2009
Washington DC
We walked back to the passport office to discover that Allison was getting closer to her turn, but was still going to be waiting awhile. We decided to take the boys to the Smithsonian site and let them run around and then Allison could meet up with us over there. Pam gave her a quick lesson and a map of the Metro. " Just walk up 3 blocks and you will see the Metro station. Take the escalator down into the station and buy an all day pass...get on the red line to the Smithsonian".
Friday, May 29, 2009
Jake's butterfly
Thursday, May 21, 2009
Bugs...
However, his discussion about catching those bugs afterwards would rival the story about the Little Tailor. Remember that Mickey Mouse cartoon? He killed 5 flies, but somehow it was turned into 5 giants in one swat. Jacob is like the "dragon slayer" of bugs. ....the Steve Irwin of the preschool set.
Monday, May 11, 2009
Alllll together now
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Easter eggs
Friday, April 17, 2009
Have you seen Susan Boyles?
Well, on a whim in a moment of bordem today I decided to google her and have a look at her song. It popped up on YouTube and has had 20 MILLION views in under a week.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9lp0IWv8QZY
I watched it out of curiosity to see what the buzz was and I was so shocked to find myself crying. I can't even pinpoint why it made me cry. It was something about her "sweetness" and her total unphased simple personality. She gives you something to laugh at in the beginning in her little pre interview because she's so witty. When she takes the stage she is actually booed as soon as the crowd hears her age. It doesn't even bother her and she just starts singing. She shuts the crowd and the judges right up in about 2 seconds into her song. When she is done she simply walks off the stage and has to be called back. She is just SOOOOO completely lovable and you want her to succeed. I couldn't help , but to share her video. LOL
Thursday, April 9, 2009
Track update
He came in 5th in the mile with a time of 5:53!! Obviously, he is getting faster :)
He came in 3rd in the 800 meter with a time of 2:51. He was in the top 2 kids from his school in this race, which was the goal. Only the top 2 times can go to some of the bigger meets. He was trying to be in that elite group.
After the meet his coach came up to us and said, "Wow, that Micah is improving fast. He's doing great for a 7th grader. He runs his hardest at practice and always listens to us and that is why he's getting better. He's easy to coach."
Tilden and I were pretty proud of him. Not only is he working his butt off at track, but he also got a 4.0 this grading period. Add to that the fact that he made it through the second sets of cuts in his try outs for the Olympic Development Soccer Team. THAT is incredibly difficult to do. They only take the cream of the crop to form the Ohio team. He made it part way last year, but was cut at this point. He's gone one step further so far.
The try outs are pretty far away and it's a commitment from US as well as Micah. He begged us to allow him to try out because he just loves this sport. Everyone else that is trying out has been playing for international teams and paid thousands of dollars for personal training and elite camps. Micah is going in there with just sheer talent...very little training. No one knows who he is, but he is fighting his way through try outs and forcing them to notice him. LOL He sure is scrappy!
Saturday, April 4, 2009
Kraynak's
Jake was pretty enthralled with this giant stuffed duck. He talked a lot about how it needed to come home with him and be his "new friend". LOL
I'm not sure what this scene was all about, but it appeared that Sesame Street characters were attending a birthday party for Winnie The Pooh.
A trip to Kraynak's isn't complete until you've wandered through the green house and smelled all the flowers. :)
Friday, April 3, 2009
Micah's first track meet
Micah is one of the youngest kids on the track team, but it doesn't seem to matter to much. He is so competitive and has been this way all of his life. As he was running the 1600 meter race ( 1 mile ) I was remembering all those times in his life when he needed to be first. He was constantly asking us to time him on whatever he did and he ran everywhere he went. He even owned his own stop watch by the time he was 4 years old. I guess that he's been a track runner his whole life and it's FINALLY gotten to the point where he can put all that energy and desire to good use.
There were 20 kids on the track for this race and it was the first time Micah has ever stepped foot on a track for a competition. Eighteen of the runners were 8th graders and had run before. He started off slowly and paced himself for one lap and then systematically hunted down runners for the next 3 laps. I took this picture in the home- stretch of the final lap, you can see Micah is putting every last ounce of his energy into passing this kid. Micah completely took this kid off guard and literally FLEW to catch him.
He finished that race with a time of 6:24 and was 5th place. We were VERY proud of him and impressed that he could hold his own in a pack of experienced 8th grade boys. He runs a pretty fast 400 meter too , but was not in that event this time around. The coach is still trying to figure out where to put all the kids for the bigger races. Micah's goal is to be one of the boys chosen to attend the Invitationals. There are 40 boys on his track team and they can only take about 15 of them to the big meets. He wants to be one of those boys. Good Luck, Micah!!