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Don't have much time to write...as I am needed at the soccer fields. I already have sunburn from sitting through 2 games this afternoon . LOL

I thought it would be calming to sit here for a minute and listen to one of my favorite songs, " Whatever you're doing/ Something heavenly" by Sanctus real. ahhhhhhhhh Just in case you are curious, here is their video for that song on YouTube : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=06AgY5Xoavw
Odd to most, but it's a calming song on a crazy day like today. :)

I just uploaded a video of Jake's birthday party and his very first soccer game.
He scored 4 goals in 6 minutes and also took a few other shots. He's pretty good...what can I say? Refresh the page if the new video's aren't showing up on youtube.

Pictures

I am trying to add a slideshow of my pictures on flicker...hoping one of my sisters will read this and give me a hand.

I added it as a new gadget...picked "user name" and then put in my flicker name...BUT I am only getting random pictures on here. Any clues?

Views on building

It's already time for Alex and Caleb to go back to college. I feel like we lost the whole summer somehow...how is it already August??
Yesterday, Pam, Micah, Eric, Jake, Haliegh and myself went to Alex's new apartment by YSU. You have to walk up 19 narrow steps to get to her apartment, which Micah and Eric felt was a competition. LOL Pam and I worked on a ginormous armoire that Alex got at Ikea last week.

So here is the "picture" ...for your mind. We put a fan in the window in the living room as it was the only window that doesn't have a brick wall directly outside and can provide a nice breeze. Jake and Haliegh played on cardboard boxes in the living room the entire time...so they were cool and comfy. Now, lets shove 3 or 4 adults into the bedroom to work on this jigsaw puzzle known as an armoire with no air flow. Sweat, sweat sweat...drip drip drip.
Pam and I would consider ourselves relatively intelligent people, but we were stumped for at least 30 minutes on STEP 1!!! We were supposed to stick 3 of the main giant pieces of wood together. There were at least 10 pieces with all varying degrees of holes and patterns of holes. We tried one direction...took it apart...tried another ...took it apart. Alex came in and said, "put that one there and this one here" . We did what she said and it appeared to work, so she left the room with her college brain giving her a high five. HOWEVER, when we moved on to step 2 we noticed that the piece with 45 holes in the pattern of the southern night sky was not lining up with the picture in the directions. We stood over these 3 pieces of wood with those directions and turned them upside down...sideways...backwards...sigh. Would it be so difficult to actually print a tiny letter on each piece of wood to identify them. You know, "place board A into board C"?
I stepped into the living room to get some air and discovered Jake and Haliegh throwing popcorn into the fan so that it would blow all over the living room and create a "snow storm". I had to put a stop to it, of course...as she doesn't own a vacuum yet. OOOPSIE. Haleigh said, "this is so cool. I wish I lived here". LOL KIDS!!
Then I went into the dining room to check on the progress of Micah and Eric as they were building a tiny bookshelf. In their 13 year old boy wisdom they rushed and split some of the wood with the nails that you drive into the back piece. They didn't feel the least bit concerned over that problem and decided to run around the house as fast as they could and throw things at each other . I decided to stop them and give them something to do. I made them move things from one room to another.
Back to the Ikea project...it was finally moving along as we had discovered the proper orientation of the first 3 pieces. Cut ahead two hours later and we have ourselves a finished project. I smashed my toe and got 2 cuts on my hands throughout the project, but it's all worth it. Alex got herself a lovely closet/dresser and her 2 little brothers and 2 cousins felt like they helped her in some way. I'm sad to see her move out again, but I'm proud that she is confident enough to take on the world and find her own apartment.
Now the mom side of me has to stop worrying about her living there. LOL

So what now?

Our society has this constant urge to keep each other moving. When you have a baby people can not help but ask you, " so are you having another one soon?". With my fourth child going off to school this year I have been the target of an endless barrage of , "what are you going to do with yourself now that Jake is in school?".
Have I suddenly become useless to society because my child is in school? Have I given up my rights to raise him because he is in school? Silly people!! Silly society!!
Guess what? I choose to stay involved in HIS life just like I have in all of his siblings lives. I don't plan on abandoning his child hood for the sake of my own life. I don't need to go to work or start thinking of myself and what I want to do because I now have free time.

I have learned from raising 3 other kids that I have no free time. I loved being there for Alex to chat about the weird boys at school or being the mom who was willing to french braid 5 cheerleaders hair before a game. I was always available to my boys when they needed me to drop everything and drive half the team to a soccer game. They were never late for practice or missed a game because their mom was "busy" and they couldn't find a ride. I have attended nearly every single gymnastics meet, band concert, baseball game, soccer game, track meet, school play, Open house, basketball game, prep bowl, challenge 24, science fair and spelling bee that has lighted across my path. I have been there...at home...when someones heart was broken by their 'true love" or their staggering disappointment because they were cut from the team. I have whisked them away to a "just you and me" lunch or dinner to commiserate or celebrate the event in their lives. I've stolen them away from school in the middle of the day for a surprise trip to see a movie or go to the zoo because they had straight A's.

I AM THEIR MOM...I am their mom 24/7. I am still Alex's mom, even though she is 21 years old. I am still Jake's mom, even though he is now in Kindergarten. Last night around 11pm Alex, Caleb, Micah and I were playing Boggle on my bed and laughing hysterically over our collective ignorance in spelling words. Yeah, that's right...11pm on a Sunday night MY KIDS wanted me to play Boggle with them. Wonder why that is? Oh yeah, it's because I am their mom and not their care giver who raised them for 5 years and then let the school system handle the rest. :)
I have great kids. I have REALLY great kids. People comment to me on a weekly basis that my kids are so accomplished and wonderful. Guess what? It's because I committed to being their mom and let go of the worldly view that I need "my own life". I don't need it...my job is to turn out 4 new adults who will be cherished by their new families some day.
If you see me soon...and you realize Jake is in school now. Don't you dare ask me what I am going to do with all my free time!! There is no free time when you have 4 kids.

First day of school

Jake started Kindergarten today. I have a picture of each one of my kids standing on the front porch the first day of school. Jake is by far the happiest one. LOL He will go for 3 weeks and then have 3 weeks off before they actual school year starts up. It's a program for Kindergartner's to experience school with none of the older kids around. They will have the entire school to themselves and things won't be as scary.

Jake has been very excited about the whole thing. Last year at this time he would have crawled into his self made shell and refuse to talk...refuse to get out of the car...cry...cry some more...

It's amazing what a whole year can do to the maturity level. He's gone from a scared withdrawn 5 year old to an outgoing fun loving 6 year old. Okay, so he's ALMOST six. Keeping him home last year was a very good decision. That point was driven home as I stood on the playground in a sea of crying, scared kids.

Jake couldn't wait to get to school today. He was anxious for us to hurry up and leave. Alex woke up early and came with us...which made him very happy. As with all the other kids, I got a shot of him standing next to the school sign. He was slightly annoyed that I made him stop and take the time to do that picture. LOL

He walked right up to his teacher and said, "Hi". She introduced herself and then told him that he could go out on the playground until they were ready to start. He didn't have to be told twice...since running and jumping are his favorite things. When we got outside there was another little boy with the same exact "Super Mario Galaxy" backpack. Apparently, this meant they were best friends as far as Jacob was concerned. He instantly started climbing this jungle gym with his "new friend". He's wearing the green shirt, at the top of this yellow climber.

After about 2 minutes had gone by he tossed his back pack at me and said, "Hold this while I play tag with my new friends." LOL He then spent the next 10 minutes running wildly around the playground. I let him do it too...because I figured he needed to release all that pent up energy. I'm sure his teacher would appreciate that thoughtful gesture on my part. :)

We were there pretty early and as he was playing the buses started dropping the kids off and the playground got pretty full. There are 5 kindergarten classrooms at our school. When the classes started to line up he came over to me and said, "who are all those other kids?". I told him that they were in other Kindergarten's and he just looked confused. I snapped a shot of him walking in his line into the classroom. You can get a feel for how the school is set up from this picture. His line is the furthest...you can see Alex standing at the end of the group and Jake is just about to enter the building. It's so nice that they all have their own door directly from the playground.

I walked into the class with him and said, "I'll see you after school" and he said, "OK, bye" with a HUGE smile on his face. It was so easy to leave him there today knowing that he was thrilled to be at school. I can't wait to pick him up and hear all his stories.

YAY me!

Garmin 255W

I used my mom's Garmin twice in June and I loved it...even though I am perfectly capable of printing a map off MapQuest and I rarely get lost. However, the Garmin was quite handy when I missed my exit and it recalculated the next best route.

What I really love is the feature that lets you find points of interest and places to eat around your location. We were able to find a few beach side parks and a cool Japanese restaurant in Shaker Square up in Cleveland. We travel a lot with Micah's soccer stuff , so it was nice to have that option to show us where to go and what we could do in the big breaks between games.

Tilden drove to the last tournament and followed the Garmin's directions. It only took one time and he was completely hooked! LOL He did feel that it made him "directionally challenged" though, as he no longer paid attention to actual road signs and just blindly followed the Garmin's voice directions. We decided this week to go and buy one ourselves because there was a very good sale at Best Buy. We rarely buy ourselves anything in the "luxury" category like this, so I am pretty ...lamely...excited.

The one thing that irritated me when I borrowed my mom's was the fact that my vehicle on the display was a blue car and I just felt that was so boring. When I registered my Garmin today I noticed a little link for the "garage" and when I clicked on it there were all these FREE downloadable vehicles. It took me a full 45 minutes to figure out how to get them onto my Garmin , but I finally did it and here are some of my choices, just to give myself some variety on my trips. (Plus, it will keep Jake entertained when the vehicle is "cool")

Yes, that is a Christmas bulb and it blinks too. There is even a turkey for Thanksgiving and a ton of Christmas and Halloween choices. Fun fun!

ODP

This is Micah his first year of playing soccer...at age 5.

Mostly I am writing this for my sister...Allison. I think she is the only one who actually KNOWS what "ODP" is all about. LOL Since I can't call her right now, this was my next best idea.

Micah has been doing a very long drawn out series of try-outs to get on the Olympic Development Soccer Team (ODP). He started in November and has made it through cut after cut, keeping himself alive with his tremendous determination and raw talent. It's VERY hard to make this team. It's the top 16 kids in the entire state of Ohio who were born in 1995. They divide the teams up by birth year. Micah is a little unlucky in that aspect as he is born in December and so most of the kids are bigger than he is and a grade older as well. I've been driving him up past Cleveland every Tuesday for the 2 hour try out sessions. He is one of the smallest boys out there.

They started with hundreds of boys and have been slowly making cuts, eliminating 1/4 of the boys each time. I got an email this morning and Micah MADE THE TEAM!!! He isn't an alternate either...he is ON the main team!! When I told him, his eyes got soooo big and he just said, "wow". LOL He will be leaving us for a week pretty soon to go to the Regional Camp in Indianapolis. At Regional Camp they will be looking at the top 16 boys from 5 states and taking 20 of them to represent our region in the National Tournament. Honestly, none of us expect Micah to make the regional cut. Maybe in another year...when he can catch up in size...who knows. We are all pretty excited for him and proud of him for this HUGE accomplishment. I just wanted to share :)

They sent me some paperwork to fill out and they wanted to know how many years he's made the "state pool" and the "regional pool"...and how long he's played on an International team. Ummmm...he's never done ANY of that stuff. LOL The other parents in the crowd were shocked that he hasn't had any "real" training. I guess he showed them, didn't he? Sheer talent and hard work can get you pretty far.